Are you in love with the idea of being loved?


She sat across me, both of us breathing the same air under the same sky and I had so much to tell her but I was speechless. I somehow felt that this was the most magical and serendipitous moment I've ever felt before and there I saw a girl with teary eyes tingling profusely and I was speechless. But it was her rectitude and courage that transmuted me into one of the most important concept of friendships and the idea of being loved which a really few people truly witness.The thing is we all have a choice and we are all choosing.

I recently had a discussion with few of my friends where we were debating on who is more essential- A best friend or a romantic partner. Until yesterday I would have said none but you know as we continue running in our circles life does move on and we see a new day placed with a new experience and a new struggle and an idea to hug ourselves to.

                                                 TODAY.

Today I realized that when we scroll through life's moments the highlighted ones and the highlighted people we think we know do not always give us the highlighted moment but in the course of somewhere trying to prove it we understand who the real,true and best friend is. Having a best friend is literally the best therapy you apply yourself to, the best advice you allow yourself to follow and the best person you open up to. However defining an entire relationship and and entire individual to a single term is limiting and we deserve more than that. Do you ever get that feeling that when things get really complicated and out of control you decide to pull yourself in quietness before you've even been left? Well I do and through everything I feel fortunate enough to have what Aristotle termed,"The perfect form of friendship", that between the good, and those who resemble each other in virtue. So what you did today is something I've never witnessed before and that's probably because I'm afraid of being loved and wanted and the lack of being familiar with it and your depth of kindness and love to me has sky rocketed me .

So here's to my best friend and here's to yours ............

Thank you for being there for me when I couldn't .

Thank you for being there for me when I didn't have an answer.

Thank you for being there for me when I was unable to express myself.

Thank you for holding on to me and believing in me when I just couldn't. 

Thank you for being my best friend, my cheerleader and my person.

 So she sat across me, both of us breathing the same air under the same sky and I had so much to tell her but I was speechless. I somehow felt that this was the most magical and serendipitous moment I've ever felt before and there I saw a girl with teary eyes tingling profusely and I was speechless. But it was her rectitude and courage that transmuted me into one of the most important concept of friendships and the idea of being loved which a really few people truly witness. 

The thing is we all have a choice and we are all choosing.

And in the end ,

Dear best friend, Its you and your power of goodness that has made me beyond euphoric and high enough to touch the sky. 

If only I could have said more.

Love you, 

Kareena :)